being positive in all problems thrown at you is the best thing you can do , not the easiest. When a big change happens you never know why it may be for the best in the long run. Everything happens for a reason. Emotions change with time. Always stay positive and think of the good side of things. I dont understand things that happen sometimes which is a feeling we all get inside. Always remember to keep an open mind about things and honestly go with the flow. Do not force things or rush just flow with the vibes.