They don’t want you to be Successful

Sike… This isnt Dj Khaleds’ blog don’t worry. They don’t want us to eat breakfast… ok I’ll stop for now. I have been so busy with finals week and work that I have not have had time to blog but I am back now. What to rant about today hmmmmmmmmm…

Learning more and more everyday and gathering my goals and future plans. I have realized to live for yourself and your happiness and no one else. This may seem like something people “know”. I see so many people unhappy and I know why, because I am an outside view and I have experienced it myself in the past. When people are trapped you see them basically living their life around someone else. This is a huge no for the life game. Changes are not easy, that’s a FACT. Honestly, sometimes you have to make a change you really do not want to but you have to for your self. After a while when you find yourself again your life will really change in positive ways.

Hang out with new people, start a new hobby, go to the gym, go shopping even start a blog. Start little by little doing what you like to do and take risks too! If you enjoy music, go to a concert or start making your own mixes. Hanging out with new people is key. Even hanging out with family!

DJ Khaled is on another one with his SnapChat stories but he does make some sense SOMETIMES. Its all about following your goals and achieving them. Anything you want you really can have, its just about what you do to get it. The big picture. Being successful doesn’t always mean being rich (I still want to be rich) but, overall we all have dreams. Follow them. Live your life for you. I learned early in my life, thank god. Anything you set your mind to you can do and if your sad only you can make yourself happy. Look at DJ Khaled riding his jet skis racking up those tickets. Another one…..another one… they don’t want us to have fun they want our money. Ladies I know you want to be in his hot tub. I just want his house/elevator/personal chef… my goals -him.

 

F Sociteys idea of beauty

People today seem to have the thought that dressing a certain way or acting a certain way to achieve this idea of the right type of beauty. The reason why i have problems with alot of people is because one thing alot of people mostly females, yet males also, they think they have to look and act a part of being “perfect” or beautiful. We are all beautiful in our own ways and whats inside is more important than the outside. Respect your self. Hands down live your life the way which makes YOU happy not what society says.

 

Life is changing

Life is changing everyday in ways you would never expect. Life will throw curve balls at you which you have to be ready for at all times. You never know what is going to happen. That is why you should live your life every day like its your last. Take risks you wish to take and do what you feels makes you happy. Always think about your future and keep options open. Life works in mysterious ways.

 

How long do you wait?

How long do you wait to start talking to someone new after breaking up? I feel like this is a question only the people going through this can answer. I do believe that you do need time because you do not want to jump into something and make that person end up being your rebound. You may have had a crush or feelings with this person before who you have been thinking about lately but you do not want to rush because that may make things worse. 

Whoever is trying to bring you down is already below you

Throughout the journey we take as life you will meet many people and not everyone is going to be real to your face. There are certain people with the mentality to bring you down. Always remember inside that, whoever is trying to bring you down is already below you. There is a reason why they are so negative weather it be something against you or something they are battling within themselves. You  need to remove people with this attitude because it will only cause you pain and sadness inside. There are people out in the world who will love to bring you up and those are the positive people which we should surround ourselves with. We live and we learn but sometimes it is very hard for us to go on. People who are bringing negativity to your life are not the ones you need to keep around forever or be very close to. Open your eyes their may be someone right there who may be everything you ever needed. Everyone deserves happiness which comes from within but do not let it be diminished by an outside source. Remove negativity from your life and watch how much life will change.

Waiting for someone else to make you happy is the best way to remain sad

To start off with, this blog will be a mixture of life, relationship and wisdom topics which we all go through daily. Many people around the globe are struggling with issues which we all can relate to. Sometimes the best thing a person can do is read something inspirational which can change their view on a certain topic. 

Today i am going to start with the idea of, waiting for someone else to make you happy is the best way to remain sad. We all need to love ourselves before loving someone else and that is the first step to happiness. When you are truly confident and aware of yourself  the happiness comes from within and people can not bring that down. Personally, i have been through a lot with relationships and i was very attached to someone. I have now learned that you are the only one who can make yourself happy. Happiness comes from within and never ever let someone make you feel that they rule your happiness. Everything can be fixed with a clear state of mind.